Ahh..this is undoubtedly the God-given passion of my life. It started when I was 16 and surrendered my dating life to God. This had been one of the biggest idols in my life up to that point. When God took over I suddenly realized how many lies I had been eating right out of the palm of Satan's hand.
From that point on I knew I wanted better; both for me and for the millions of girls just like me who had also believed so many lies. As I began to study books and ideas about dating, more questions and ideas would fill my own mind. When I finished one book I would immediately pick up another, thus creating a snowball effect to my desire to learn more.
As I look around me now, I sometimes wonder if this is just a phase I'm going through, but then I realize that this is much, much more than that. This is a life calling purpose from God! He has been pushing me towards this throughout my life. He has used so many people to show me that he does want to use me in this way.
He has given me deep, eye-opening revelations in his word about dating, marriage, friendships, and how our culture has strayed from the Bible. He has had people breathe into my life, sharing the hope they have for my relationship advice ministry, and he has loved and healed me in a way that only strengthens my heart more for this issue.
Recently he has opened all sorts of doors from book writing to bible studies in other churches, and to showing others the love of Christ through this passion of mine.
There is not a doubt in my mind that God has given me this desire for knowledge on this topic. I also know that he has given me this desire for a reason, and that reason is to use it to glorify him. When I type out a blog post a feeling of hope and service rushes over me. I have a constant prayer that what I love to do for fun, will in some way change the heart-perception of someone else. I pray that the lessons I have learned the hard way will be taken in by girls who don't need anymore hard lessons.
My name is Haley Hoover, and my passion is relationships. Although I am still very young, I have no doubt that God will use this passion for his glory in the future.
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