Monday, May 21, 2012
Intro: The Five Love Languages
Now the book is published in many different forms, "The Five Love Languages of Children", "The Five Love Languages of Teenagers", and "The Five Love Languages: A Secret to Love that Lasts" and a few others.
Several years ago I read "The Five Love Languages: Singles Edition." I can honestly say that this book helped me make far advances in my spiritual walk with the Lord. After reading the book I was far more able to communicate love to those around me, as well as strengthen my ability to receive love in different forms from these people.
I have learned to categorize my Christian friends by their love languages so that I can love them each in their own way, as well as encourage them and support them through those specific languages. I have also enjoyed watching God shape me into a more well-rounded giver and receiver of each language. As odd as it may sound, it isn't always easy receiving love in your secondary language.
The author, Gary Chapman, has a doctorate in philosophy from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary and is now the senior associate pastor at Calvary Baptist Church in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. He has been married to his wife for over 45 years and draws much experience and wisdom through their relationship.
Chapman has also written many top selling books such as "Love is a Verb: Stories of What Happens When Love Comes Alive", "The Marriage You've Always Wanted", and "Things I wish I'd Known Before we Got Married." I have not read any of these, but I have personally heard wonderful things about all of them.
As you may have probably guessed, the wisdom from this book and its theory is powerful for people of all relationship statuses. Singles can read this and begin practicing individual love languages on everyone presently in their lives, and married couples will be encouraged by figuring out their mate's main languages and loving them specifically through that. Although the original idea was to use the theory to promote healthy marriages, the idea is now so wide spread that most small groups or bible study classes begin with the discovery of individuals main love languages. All God-fearing people-lovers can gain wisdom and riches from this idea.
Because I want to encourage you to read the book, I am not going to go into great detail about what the book teaches or how it helps you apply the languages, but I am going to introduce you to the five love languages and then present five guest posts from friends who primarily have each of those languages.
The Five Love Languages are:
1) Words of Affirmation
3) Acts of Service
4) Quality Time
5) Physical Touch
Stay tuned for guest posts from people who specialize in these languages!