In Sacred Influence, Thomas gives advice to Christian women on everything from sex to exhortation in dealing with their husbands. Sixteen chapters are split up into three main parts of the book. The first part focuses on the reality that in order for a wife to influence her husband she must first influence herself, and that comes from focusing on God constantly.
The second part instructs wives on how to create a "climate for change." In this section Thomas instructs women on the deepest parts of a man's heart and all of his insecurities. Through these lenses, wives can better understand and relate to their husbands. Finally, in the third section, Thomas focuses each chapter on specific marital issues that Christian wives come across and what the best biblical option is for these women.
Gary Thomas is most well-known for his best-selling book, Sacred Marriage, and the seminars he travels around and teaches based off of that book. The subtitle and focus of Sacred Marriage is "What if God Designed Marriage to Make Us More Holy Than to Make us Happy." This was Thomas' first major book and many other books, including Sacred Influence, were written as a supplement to Sacred Marriage.
Husband to one and father to three, Thomas lives in Houston where he runs marathons and writes for Second Baptist Church. He has been wildly successful in authoring many books, and still finds time to love his family even more. In fact, his wife, Lisa wrote the forward to Sacred Influence.
As you have seen the last few posts from this week, I have been inspired by this book. Full of wisdom and biblical truth, Sacred Influence is a good read for any wife or wife to be if they desire to love and support their husband as best as they can. Although I recommend it for both single and married women, I would at least limit the age to women out of high school with a more mature mind frame in this area.
I look forward to soon reading the ever-popular, Sacred Marriage and Thomas's latest piece, Every Body Matters: Strengthening Your Body to Strengthen Your Soul. Gary Thomas is a wise and inspiring author. Stay tuned for more book reviews!